So basically, I figured I'll start with an introduction to why I decided to do each of the lifestyle choices I've chosen, and once completed explaining my reasoning for each, I'll then go off of each of those to make a weekly blog of my experiences and types I've found to make things easier!
Still to come:
- Cloth diapers
- Baby wearing
- Attachment parenting
- Exercising
- Future plans for us
Breastfeeding
My choice to breastfeed honestly wasn't an automatic decision, my sister and I weren't breastfed, nor was my niece or nephew, so my instinct was to say formula, then I was like ok, well I'll breastfeed, but I'll pump and give her a bottle, and that decision basically stood until she was born and I started breastfeeding, I then decided she would be strictly breastfed, I did give her 4-5 bottles while my mom was visiting, so Matt and I could go out a couple times, and she could bond with Madeline. She had no confusion going right back to the boob, so that was great.
Our first time breastfeeding!
Right from the start, she has been a great nurser, she was placed on my chest and nursed at about 30 minutes after birth, from the start her latch has been amazing! My nipples were pretty sore the first 2-3 weeks, just the initial latch was painful, if it's painful beyond that there is something wrong with the babies latch. I also joined a Facebook group called breastfeeding mama's, they were a great help for answers before she was born, I read so much and asked so many questions that I taught myself and didn't even need to take a class, I was so fearful of failing at providing Madeline with the absolute best nutrition possible that I needed for my own peace of mind to read and re-read everything I could, I bought the book "Making more milk", which I definitely recommend!
Mastitis
This is what mastitis looked like!
I had one roadblock so far, and that was mastitis, this was the most painful thing ever, it's pushed some women to stop breastfeeding, but nothing would stop me, it starts as a red spot on your breast, usually pretty faint, mine started with a headache, and extra tired feeling, I took Tylenol, not realizing it was a fever reducer, and by the time it wore off I had a 102 degree fever, body ache, chills, hot sweats, basically flu like symptoms! I said I'd take labor over feeling like that again, the next morning I was put on antibiotics (note it's good to take a probiotic along with the antibiotic, you can buy them at Walmart or wherever really, to prevent the baby from getting thrush or yeast, since antibiotics kill both good and bad antibodies). My mastitis really improved after the first 2 doses, and within 24 hours my fever broke, very thankful!!!
Nursing in public, normalize breastfeeding!!
This! This is such a controversial topic, I was also pretty much like no, that's gross, I will be the first to admit I was very neive and kind of stupid about it, after I had Madeline and realized there was nothing weird about breastfeeding, I had no problem, nursing in public and nursing uncovered, in August 2013 we attended the big latch on event, Madeline was 3 weeks old and the youngest baby at the event.
Us at the big latch on 2013
We are now at 3 months strong of exclusively breastfeeding, Madeline is growing and getting stronger each day, my love for that baby is forever growing! I plan to breastfeed until she's ready to be done, hoping to be weaned around 18 months, but I'd it's before or after, that's ok too!
My sweet babe and I!
I'll go into detail on these topics at a later date!